This Memorial website has been created in loving memory of
'OUR LITTLE MAN'
Benjamin Riley Bernard Ogier

Benjamin was born in Guernsey on Tuesday 7th March 2006
at 16:48pm, weighing 9lbs 2 1/2 oz. He gained his angel wings just 47 minutes later. Benjamin had an undiagnosed Heart Condition called
TRANSPOSITION OF THE GREAT ARTERIES
If you would like to read about the time we spent with Benjamin click on the TIMELINE tab.

Below are the links to view Darren + Vicki's Sky Dives
which they did on Benjamin's
1st Birthday
(07/03/07)

JUST COPY AND PASTE INTO YOUR BROWSER


Darren's Sky Dive
http://video.google.co.uk/videoplay?docid=-1847496123894715729

Vicki's Sky Dive
http://video.google.co.uk/videoplay?docid=3198532966434560406





















TO MUMMY

I have not turned my back on you
So there is no need to cry
I'm watching you from Heaven
Just beyond the morning sky

I've seen you almost fall apart
When you could barely stand
I asked the Lord to comfort you
And watched him take your hand

He told me you are in more pain
Than I could ever be
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard
Then gave your hand to me

Although you may not feel my touch
Or see me by your side
I've whispered that I love you
While I wiped each tear you cried

So please try not to ache for me
We'll meet again one day
Beyond the dark and stormy sky
A RAINBOW lights the way






PLEASE LIGHT A CANDLE FOR BENJAMIN
IF YOU PASS BY, TO KEEP HIS
MEMORY ALIVE














"My Mummy is a survivor
Or so I've heard it said
But I can hear her crying
When all the others are
Asleep in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night
And go to hold her hand
She doesn't know I'm with her
To help her understand.
But like the sands upon the beach
That never wash away
I watch over my Mummy
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others
A smile of disguise
But through Heavens open door
I see tears flowing from her eyes.
Mummy tries to cope with my death
To keep my memory alive
But anyone who knows her
Knows that it's her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving Mummy
Through Heavens open door
I try to tell her that
Angels protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her
Or ease the burden she bares
So if you get a chance, talk to her
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says
No matter what she feels
My Mummy has a broken heart
That time will never heal".



The Empty Womb

I carried you so lovingly
Within my gentle womb
And little did I realize
Your life would end too soon

I never got the chance to say
"I love you little one"
Before I held you in my arms
Your life on earth was done

The grief is indescribable
To lose a child this way
All the many hopes and dreams
Just vanished on that day

I know I'll see the sun shine bright
Upon my babies face
When I finally get to heaven
My pain will be erased

We'll soar the skies together
As Angels two by two
We'll have a sweet renunion
A mothers dream come true.



On the day God took you
I thought that I would die
I wondered where the time went?
I asked alot of whys??
With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort,
I couldn't seem to hide,
I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here,
I thought "This can't be happening."
As I wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again,
I wondered if the pain would end,
But mostly, I wondered when??
It's hard to be without you,
At times the days seem long,
Sometimes I just sit crying,
When there's really nothing wrong.
I wish we'd had more time,
Before your life was done.
I hope your resting peacefully,
My precious one






















































































The rainbow of colors
So merry and bright
Each color has a purpose
Even black and white

The rainbow is so full
Of radiance and gleam
It sparkles and shines
Through every little beam

After a storm
A rainbow you'll see
With all the glaring colors
A rainbow there'll be

Then at the end
Your dream will come true
A pot of gold awaiting
All just for you 



If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
and share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue. 




OVER THE RAINBOW

It's not a place you can get to
By boat or by train
It's far far away
Beyond the moon
Beyond the rain



Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
Theres a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby



Oh yes Heaven is a beautiful place
And I thank God for that every day
I know he is with me and Guiding me
As I continue my journey called grief
Which has left me with a broken heart



Dorothy's journey continued over the rainbow
So has Benjamin's...just a little past beyond
The Wizard of Oz and grief have so much in comman
And so the story and my journey continues on



Sometimes this journey seems long and winding
Just like the yellow brick road
Sometimes I feel i have lost my way
And feel like I am carrying such a heavy load



Just like Dorothy met the Scarecrow
The Cowardly Lion
And the tin Man
As she went along her way
I too have met many compassionate people
But I have lost just as many
Who choose to shy away



Just like the Scarecrow wanted a brain
I think I could use a bigger one too
To hold my memories of sweet yesterdays
And remember everything we did with you



Just like the Tin Man wanted a heart
I think I could use a new one too
As mine is broken in a million pieces
Some days I just don't know what to do



Like the Cowardly Lion who wanted some courage
I too want some
To help me climb this hill
To help me keep moving through this world of grief
When the whole world seems to be standing still



When the poppy flowers made Dorothy tired
The Scarecrow was going to pull her along
I too need friends
To be by my side
To listen and help me be strong



If only this story was true
And Benjamin could click his shoes
Three times or four
And say "Theres no place like home"
And he would be back in my arms once more



If only I could wake from this bad dream
And go back in time
And have Benjamin here once more
And leave this thing called grief behind



But since life is not a Fairytale
And my wishes cannot come true
We will remember him
And all that he was
'Our little man'
We will always love you



Yes Benajamin is somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
In a place that I heard of
Once in a lullaby 

























































































Today I prayed for Angels
To keep watch over you
To guard you and protect you
In everything you do

When I whispered to the Father
I asked for him to bring
A touch of love and goodness
Sent forth on Angels wings

I asked for them to whisper
Peace and joy into your ear
That songs of love and happiness
Would be all that you would hear

Then I asked the Father
 To shine upon your face
An extra special blessing
Of his mercy and his grace

Tonight I asked the Father
To grant one more request
That Angels stand and watch over you
And give you peaceful rest

So if you feel a brush of wings
Or a soft breeze fills the air
Just know it's angels watching over you
Because of whispered prayer

INTRODUCING BENJAMIN'S BABY SISTER

ERIN RAE OGIER

BORN MONDAY 5TH NOVEMBER

04:23AM

1 MONTH EARLY

6LBS 5OZ

Kirstie's Website

http://kirstiemeganmarquis.celebration-of.com